The Emotional and Mental Effects of Domestic Violence Underscored

"It is estimated that 2 million to 4 million US women are assaulted by a domestic partner every year." (Massey, J. Domestic Violence in Neurologic Practice. Archives in Neurology. 1999). Many of these cases are not reported, but the lingering effects of domestic violence are real and can be devastating. Many victims need professional help to move past the overwhelming trauma surrounding such abuse. A bruise or wound is even more painful in the light of infliction by a loved partner. A physical scar left by a domestic violence attack serves as a constant reminder of the hurt and pain of betrayed love. Betrayed love works havoc on a relationship. Bruises and wounds may heal in time, but the scars that ensue could be permanent. As traumatizing as the physical effects of domestic violence may be, however, they are short-lived compared to the psychological effects of the offense. The emotional and mental effects of domestic violence are not only devastating — they can be life-altering.

Domestic Violence — Emotional Abuse

Domestic violence has many negative repercussions. The physical damage, such as a black eye or broken nose, is clearly evident and can be treated accordingly. The emotional and psychological damage may not be as visual, but certainly are just as real. Domestic violence and emotional abuse go hand-in-hand. Emotional abuse includes such actions as verbal abuse, isolation, and intimidation. Controlling behavior also falls under this type of abuse. Emotional abuse affects the victim's self-worth and independence. It can cause an entire personality change as feelings of helplessness, hopelessness, and despair prevail. The victim becomes despondent and fearful. If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence — emotional abuse — do not hesitate to seek help. There are qualified professionals who can help.